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Makan adalah terapi stress

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Hari ini sangat stressed. Telefon Mahadi untuk berkongsi a.k.a memaksa dia mendengar ketidakpuasan hati. Dia busy.

Ah, perlu menjerit. Call Kam untuk tujuan tersebut.

‘Nak menjerit ni!’ I started. She didn’t get it.

‘I’m so stressed out,’ I said. Now she get it.

‘I feel like crying’, ala-ala drama ayat aku.

‘Go on and cry’, Kam said.

‘Weh, I’m at the bus station at the mo lah’.

Lega sedikit lepas ‘menjerit’. Then I’ve realise I am darn hungry. No wonder the stress is lingering. Kena pergi makan.

But suddenly I remember me and ma friends talking about guys in stress and sorrow. We compared the difference in between typical guys’ and girls’ action.

It’s a simple one for girls. If they are in stress or sorrow, just lend them your ear. Agree with them. Then they feel better. Then they think of you as a good listener. Then they think you are nice and attracted to you for being a good listener. Oh, abaikan ayat last. (Kak Khalidah and Zeah, it’s the unwritten rule of environmental friendly eh).

Guys are more complicated when they are feeling vunerable as in feeling stress out or in sorrow. For typical kind of guy, first rule is to respect their ego. Offering help and kata-kata semangat is … perceived as weakness and against our ego. Boleh tak cakap camtu?

Okay, if that’s like making generalisation, let’s just refer it to myself then. But nice things like ‘are you alright’, ‘you are gonna be fine’, ‘okey ke?’, ‘ceritalah apa masalah’ are a bit annoying to be said when you see me in my moody/sorrow/stressed condition.

I don’t think it’s just me though. I got some guy friends who are acting this way as well. They just want to be left alone, or just shut up or don’t talk about them in that moment.

Once they are opened up, then it’s alright.

Or just belanja diorang makan. As makan adalah terapi stress.

P.S: Secret Recipe and KFC should work just fine for me, for future reference:P


6 Responses to “Makan adalah terapi stress”

  1. Nursyeff@rni says:

    I don’t think it’s just mostly guys lutfi, I am one of those who would fall in the category of “They just want to be left alone, or just shut up or don’t talk about them in that moment”.. “Once they are opened up, then it’s alright” Been there, done that!

  2. alient mulut besar says:

    Wah, patutlah jejanz bengang ngan I bila dok concern2 tanya apa masalah depa! (termasuk mr raksase) Wei, kopakla kalau nak belanja bagi melambangkan keprihatinan dan kesediaan meminjamkan bahu untuk ditangisi atasnya…kekeke
    Wah, kena beli manual ni – manual untuk memahami lelaki.
    ‘Then they think you are nice and attracted to you for being a good listener’ I kinda agree with that..Tammo cari laki kaunselor atau pakar sakit jiwa..Jenuh makan hati nnti.kekeke

  3. Lutfi Amri says:

    Arni, yeh, of course it’s not just guys:) Human behaviour can’t be generalised by gender. Hehe.

    Kak Dijah, kalau masakan sendiri pun (as approved by Dharma kan), boleh jugak.

  4. Nurul Umira says:

    betul tuh makan adalah salah satu cara untuk hilangkan stress..memang berkesan..tp bila dah makan dtg lagi satu stress,badan semakin ‘membesar’..hehe

  5. zeah says:

    Aku setuju mengenai dengan makan menghilangkan stress…. menenangkan jiwa dan akhirnya menjadikan diri semakin hyper,,,, haahahhahahaha

  6. zeah says:

    and about the unwritten rule, nasib baik kau ada cakap ‘abaikan ayat last’, kalau tak, mungkin aku akan meng’comment’ panjang sikit. Hahaha.

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